Hey love, I am Natalia Urban Chanes (my mom is usually forcing me to use her last name 😂, so I'll honour her side of the family too). I'm a Hypnotherapist and Subconscious Mind Mentor.
I was born into a wildly unconventional spiritual family, so it’s no surprise that I eventually found my path into Hypnotherapy 🔥
My mom became an Astrologer, made offerings to our ancestors, and made sure to light up every candle in the house 🕯️
My dad built alien symbols into the bottom of our pool.
My grandmother Titi initiated me in Reiki at 12 years old.
And my grandfather Tata still devours books about extraterrestrial lineages 👽
I grew up in a home where the unknown was never feared, only remembered. Welcomed. Invited in. Talked about.
And I carried that curiosity into every part of my being.
And yet, I still struggled with the very human stuff 😰
I studied Cultural and Social Anthropology in Chile, chasing meaning on paper, but feeling disconnected in practice. The work I did sounded impactful from the outside, but deep down I felt like a stranger in my own life, purpose-less and without any sense of direction.
After work, I’d bury myself in Tarot, meditation, breathwork, and anything that made me feel closer to something real. I was craving answers, connection, and a deeper sense of self.
In 2022, I quit my job, left Chile, and landed in Berlin with nothing but a dream and whole lot of unprocessed pain.
I carried everything to Berlin with me. Especially the unresolved relationship I had with my past and my parents divorce when I was a child. My parents divorce shaped the way I saw myself and my worth, love, relationships, even money, as something unsafe, unreliable, and full of conditions.
That pain showed up in my romantic life too: patterns of emotional unavailability, codependency, instability. I kept re-enacting old stories, waiting for everyone else to change so I could feel safe and fulfilled.
I held so much resentment, anger, frustration, and judgement towards my past, my mom, my dad, even my brother. I was the full archetype of the victim.
I grabbed all of it and pushed it under the rug. Hoping it would go away with thousands of kilometers of distance.
But Berlin cracked me open. I realized through the hard way that you just can't hide shit from the Universe or yourself.
Under the weight of a pandemic, my subconscious wounds began surfacing fast: anxiety, disconnection, unworthiness, reckless behavior with money, and a deep inner shame.
Hypnotherapy and subconscious healing saved me. I realized that no one was coming to save me and that if I didn't do something about my life, I would grow old bitter, resentful, and bag of unacomplished dreams.
So I did the deep inner work. And I’ve softened into the kind of self-trust that no longer needs to be proven.
I now share my life with a deeply loving husband, our relationship is rooted in mutual growth, honesty, and emotional awareness.
I’ve rebuilt my relationship with my family from a place of compassion and clarity (no more getting triggered for every call).
And I’ve gone from being the quiet shy invisible one in the back of the room to guiding sold-out sessions and private clients into deep transformation.
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering the truth of who you are beneath the survival strategies, beneath the fear and all that noise, and beneath the story you were handed.
You’re not too much.
You're not too little.
And you’re never behind.
You're right on time.
I am here to guide you back into your power 💥
Thank you for being here.
With love and light,
Natalia
